穏やかな日常を過ごすコツ – 鮭のホイル焼き｜生クリームで作るチョコスコーン Tips of spending my days calmly ｜HidaMari Cooking

You have a purpose : you have the power to inject positivity in lives of others. Make this your privilege. Keep this spirit up . Your have been doing well so far. May God bless you n your family.

That was so lovely, thank you for sharing.

To me you are a true inspiration…it is a joy to watch you baking…so glad you do these videos…I wish you and yours only the best in life…keep on doing what you do …I for one wouldn’t have it any other way…a big thankyou to you 🌻

I've been following your channel for a while. At first I was impressed by the precision of your recipes, by the purposefulness and accuracy of your hand movements, by the almost scientific clarity of your instructions.

However, I soon began to ask myself, "Who is this woman?" and "Why does she only let her hands be seen?" Yes, I don't like it when someone presents themselves too much either, but here it somehow seems as if you deliberately want to focus on the thing, the recipe.

Then, later, I also saw videos in which you tell a little more about yourself and your thoughts. But I don't see any faces in these videos either – neither of you nor of your husband. You go for a walk and sit on a bench. You speak of "inner peace", but sit there very tensely and accurately on the bench. When you get back home, you almost meticulously adjust the sneakers. The dinner table is set meticulously. In several sequences I see you vacuuming.

And now I see something else. I see a person who is completely torn between the inner demand to be free and the outer pressure to be perfect, to have to deliver perfect results. Your sweet cakes, which I love very much, also represent your inner feelings, your real self, your thirst for life, your desire for uncontrollability, for your own identity and personality. In this respect, the cakes are a metaphor for the temptations of life, for the possible sweetness of life, so to speak. Your precise recipe instructions, the purposefulness of your hand movements, the completely emotionless presentation, the reduction of your person only to your hands… all this shows me the trapped and subordinate personality in you.

I wish to see you laugh in future videos too. I wish to see that you are not a robot. I wish I could see that mistakes can happen to you too. I wish to see the person you really want to be in your videos. Those would be the ingredients that would make your magical pastries even more delicious to me. I wish you a life that is as delicious as your cupcakes.😀

大好きな人がいて、大好きなものをする事、これに優る事はないと思っています。私も料理とお菓子作り洋裁が趣味です。運動すること好きです。やらなければいけないこと。やりたいことのバランスをとることが大変ですが、「美味しいね、凄いね」の言葉は魔法のように私に力を与えてくれます。頑張らなくてもいい、自分自身が笑顔でいられれば周りも笑顔になります。自分らしく❗️

Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing your thoughts. I think recognizing negative thoughts are natural takes the power away from them and in time they become less and less. Thanks for sharing the video 💖

Tus vídeos calman mi espíritu y despiertan mi apetito….mil gracias por ellos.🥰🥰

I tried to identify what I feel most of the time, I know exactly what it is and where it came from, the problem is until now, I can’t express it because I don’t know how….😢

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Thank you for this lovely vlog. I'm so glad you found your courage and now that it's 2 years since publishing this video, I hope you find your days less stressful, happier and more calm.
Please remember, you are not a psychopath or sociapath with reductions in emotions. We are all whole human beings with a full spectrum of feelings, emotions, sensations, desires, disappointments and compassion.

I don't know if this will help anyone struggling with life's difficulties and the overwhelming emotions, but hopefully, if it helps someone, I will have done something good.

(When I was a child, I cried almost every day, and often, I cried many times a day. I was sad, scared, and very fearful. So I had to figure out how to cope, and this is what worked for me, and gave me a lot of relief).
I viewed my life as a life-scape like a landscape. As a small child, it was a flat land (life) scape. Like a desert. When I cried and felt overwhelming sadness and fear, it was like a thunderstorm with a lot of rain. I thought to myself, that rain carves out deep valleys, wind shapes the soil and the rock, and we end up with high mountains, low valleys with wonderful snaking rivers and streams going through. There are forests from the upper parts of the mountains down to the valleys, all the way to the rivers and there are clearings for different ecosystems.
I felt that the emotions which overwhelmed me would carve out a rich diversity of an inner world for me and when I was older and indeed old, I would have a depth and breadth of experience and understanding that had a unique beauty and strength to it. Also a resilience.
I am now 54 and yes, it has worked very well. Whenever I am sad, frightened, angry, lost, or all combined, I turn to my narrative of the deep valleys and high mountains, and I feel gratitude.

Much love and gratitude (from Australia), and best wishes 😊🙏🌄

Your videos have been such a huge support for me when I need help calming down. Your advice and learning experiences were so profound; it takes courage to share so thank you for being brave. Thank you so much for sharing your gifts and kindness with us. I’m glad you are here. 💜